This weekend I was blessed by a wonderful evening with my dad's side of the family. My dad and his five brothers and sisters had planned a surprise 80th birthday dinner and celebration for my grandma. Let me begin by saying what a deserving woman that my grandmother was of this evening. I continue to be in awe of her dedication to her family and home. I have never been over at their house during a meal time when my grandma didn't have some meal prepared always followed by a dessert. Oh, if only I had that same dedication and time for cooking in the kitchen! How I wish! Maw Maw is also a continual source of love, support, hugs, and words of wisdom for her many grandchildren. I hope that I am able to be that to my children and grandchildren down the road someday too.
As I sat at the restaurant with my uncles, aunts, cousins, various relatives, and family friends, I couldn't help but realize how blessed I truly am. I know we most certainly aren't perfect, but to have so many people to lean on, to love, and to be loved by in return is an amazing gift. As the event neared its end, I watched as my grandma sat at a table with her last living sister and other female relatives. Their peels of laughter could be heard echoing throughout the restaurant. It brought a smile to my heart to see that despite the years, their bonds still make them young sisters at heart.
This post isn't a very long one, but I just wanted to reflect on how much I appreciate my parents, my brother, and our extended family and family friends who feel a lot like family. Don't wait until the holidays to spend time with them and show them that you care. Embrace the wonderful blessing of family today.
